★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★

Our Story

From Heartbreak to Hope

Turning Grief into Connection

★ ★ ★

Where Our Story Began

A Story of Love, Loss, and Hope

On May 29, 2019, our lives changed forever. My daughter, Hope, was only nine months old when we lost her dad, Todd, to suicide.

He was a husband, a father, and a man carrying invisible wounds from his service-the kind of wounds so many veterans and first responders live with every day.

That night broke us wide open, leaving me a widow and Hope without her daddy, forced to navigate a world that didn’t know how to hold our grief.

Original Family Photograph
Original Story Photograph

Finding Purpose in Pain

Making Space for Families Like Ours

In the months and years that followed, I searched for ways to explain the unexplainable to a child. I quickly discovered there were very few resources that spoke to children and families about loss caused by service-related trauma and depression. Families like ours are left in silence, often misunderstood or overlooked, while the pain continues in the shadows.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

From Heartbreak to Hope

★ ★ ★

That is why, on May 29, 2025- six years to the day we lost Todd-I founded

Starry is Hope

This nonprofit is both a promise and a lifeline: a promise to honor Todd’s memory and all those like him, and a lifeline for families who need a place to belong when the world doesn’t understand.

Original Final Story Photograph
★ ★ ★

Continue the Journey With Us

★

Families of the Fallen

Learn more
★

Support Our Journey

Donate Here
★

Contact Us

Send a Message
0
Skip to Content
Starry Is Hope
Home
Our Story
Our Promise
Families of The Fallen
Give
Starry Is Hope
Home
Our Story
Our Promise
Families of The Fallen
Give
Home
Our Story
Our Promise
Families of The Fallen
Give

Starry Is Hope

Contact Us Board of Directors Founding Members
Instagram Facebook TikTok LinkedIn
2025 Starry Is Hope. All rights reserved. | EIN: 39-2419694 | 501(c)(3) Nonprofit.